Encountering Love And Relationship!

I am back again with a new thought and new frame of mind and emotions....because for me without feeling anything I just can't write and I want to jot down the thoughts which are disturbing me right now......I was wondering what love is....Why is the range of love so restricted....Love is not about a man and woman relationship.As I thought, I found my thoughts in a far wider horizon where I was breathing liberally cauze ultimately I snapped ties with the one feeling called love towards your man.....Love has more wider range and perspective...After snapping out of a deep rooted emotional relationship I was able to look at love with a different perspective. The love for your God, the love for your country, the love for the nature the love for the people you hardly know...Love..such a beautiful emotion... suffocated in few relationships where you neither get to breathe nor express because of possesivness which is very harmful in a relationship. A relationship where you are ruled and dominated and ultimately you land up snapping out of every other relationship, which was your lifeline at certain juncture of your life..... We see families breaking up, we see marriages breaking up just because one is insecure about the person they love and try to bind them with demanding promises.....I discovered this in my long journey of complicated relationships. One has to give space, freedom of thoughts, respect the other person...otherwise your so called love life will just crash very badly.Later on it will be just a relationship of compromises and adjustments as you can't come out of the suffocating relationship because of the families, society n children who always keeps an unwanted marriage bound..Sad indeed...but that's the truth of life.. After a journey of tiring relationships, I found solace in the freedom to express, freedom to love every little bit of the universe...freedom to be just 'ME', unscathed and unharmed by the burns of the so called egoistical relationships which were jeopardising my life to a verge of extinct....Trying to explore the word called love which can be used in many terms.I am happy to reach the pinnacle of the emotions where i'am related to so many new feelings, pure and beautiful to the core, where there is no place for lust and ego...just pure love for your God and the whole universe. This beautiful couplet sums up the note. Kabhi Dhoop De Kabhi Badliyaan Dil-O-Jaan Se Donon Qubool Hain Magar Us Mahal Mein Na Qaid Kar Jahaan Zindagi Ki Hava Na Ho [Bashir Badr] - © Aarzoo Mehek