Heed Not Feelings, For They Cause Your Pain

when I experience a situation what if I just experience it amd not judge it good nor bad just live it, fully how I felt about something would cause me pain or pleasure but the one always needs the other they need each other as background no high needed no low desired just fly the bliss plane above water how do I feel about dinner tonight? warm how do I feel about the politicians? still warm inside how do I feel about the religious fanatics who hate the others(sinners) I still feel warm how do I feel about my teen's part in a pregnancy? still warm, unaltered how do I feel about my lovely loving love nugget? I am warm, that is all I feel act from a place of calm with no fear, concern for all parties, be giving, let them be as they are there is no greater love than selflessness that is not a feeling it is being with the other, wholeness, complete, seeing their perfection, ultimate validation, love