'My Type' Theory

I've been turned down and dumped because I was a girl's 'type' but in my mind I don't understand it because I have no type and the reason why is: It's kinda like losing something and looking all over in ever place you'd think it is but to no avail. However, you find it in a spot you'd never think it is. same with relationships the longer you look for the right guy/girl but just a certain type, you'll never find them. It isn't until you look where you'd never think to look that you'll find that one. So as long as a certain guy is the type you're looking for, the other guy could be everything you're looking for.