Obsession

People get obsessed sometimes with something from the past. It clouds their judgement with any future partner. They see the same traits within everything they do no matter how innocent they are. Their obsession becomes detrimental to the relationship they have. They construe everything as being the same as the past. Then they begin to play big brother watching their every move, accusing them with everything they do. Their obsession becomes bigger until it begins to consume them in every move they make. The biggest problem is they cannot see it, and how it is destroying their life. They feel no one needs space, a time on their own. If their partner takes that space, they are up to something that they shouldn’t be doing. Soon the obsession leads to paranoia and what they had good begins to collapse around them never to be retrieved again. 25 December 2008