A Letter To A Friend

They think it not friendly and peaceful While upon differences and dissent with others Seemingly look a part of life and decent and valuable Indeed like a dish to relish with many flavors If not there would be no ideas creative and original By parity of agreement on everything fair and unfair People often worship many God and devils When you disagree unlike me, the contrasting I explore And see the world rosy and in perspective are many castles Of thoughts pouring in to address all conflicts and rivalry In the grand scheme of life, there exists nothing that is unchangeable Barring the law of God which is eternal and shall stand for ever Given the liberation to disagree honestly Amid the discordant strife of egos will yield harmonies undreamed-of and rare It's good to be assertive but better still To be as calm and cool and respectful disposed to ideas of others As a man should be with sincere desire to retrieve the situation from eventual downfall Flexibility and openness is what is needed at this hour While making explicit the vital aspects of relation that can't be made a deal And if desirable to completely back down from one's stand once it's realized how minor And trivial the issue is in the context of the relation overall When views are exchanged contrary in an animated atmosphere Disagree with the idea and make it not personal For it may become bitterly resentful and openly hostile and sour Let me put by a saying that goes in size small As "Grace in conflict is a study in love" looks wiser So disagree without being disagreeable For the more evolved you are, the less you will agree or disagree with others And the more you will explore gently You will receive gratefully only what you need with the fullness of what others offer