If It Was Not Concerning Them

How can one be detached, From their own feelings? I've heard that said before... By those who were chosen, To be ignored. Therefore... 'Someone' had to have had no feelings. You know how quick that spreads around! And I am sure I am not the only one, That can relate to this. There are those who make attempts, To squeeze an empathy. And if no emotion is expressed, Or showed to be exposed... That person is labelled cold. And I can understand being in that position. After saving myself from being completely depleted... By those who could care less 'how' I felt, If it was not concerning them! So those lights in my life had to be switched off.