! On Not Sending Christmas Cards

Dear Friends – for friends you are, and friends you will remain – I’m not sending any cards this year – so of course, I do not deserve to receive any, by the human law of tit for tat… So if you’re sending me a card because you sent me one last year and think I’ll notice if you don’t - don’t bother. If you’re sending me a card just because I sent you one last year- I don’t want it. Just don’t bother.. If you’re sending me a card because we haven’t seen each other all the year, maybe we should arrange to meet? Or maybe we simply haven’t anything more to say to each other? Maybe we’re happier leaving it that way? Don’t bother with a card.. If you're sending me a card because - it's part of Chrismas fun - and open hearts, and memories - then, bless us every one... If you’re sending me a card because you never sent one before and feel the urge – I’ll be delighted; and if you don’t get one in return – rest assured, that I’ll remember, and we’ll probably soon meet; and know: you have enrolled yourself as my friend, anyway, by that warming thought.. If you’re sending me a card because you have me so deep implanted in your heart that your love for me is beyond a printed word – then that’s the way that I reciprocate your love, how could I not? Just don’t expect mere words – though there’s a chance a poem may wing its way one day as whitest swans and downy doves know in the air and space above their heart’s true home.. for, if ever, for however short a time you were my friend, or I to you – you are that always. Always. This is what the heart is for.