Which Is Real Love - Natural Or Traditional?

Which is real - love before marriage or love after marriage? First is natural and free, next is necessity with responsibility; First is romantic in nature, next is classical in nature; First is emotional one, next is traditional and usual one! Natural love is real and spontaneous, but traditional love is not; Natural love blooms at first sight and traditional one is very slow; Natural love is fast between two persons and also hate comes fast; Traditional love pursuit is slow and steady enduring to the last..! Natural love is painful pleasure, whereas traditional one is not so; Natural love is hot and very passionate, but traditional one is cold; Natural love has quick response for all, but traditional one is not so; Natural love is sensible and sensuous, but traditional one is senseless! First love in life is immortal even if it fails changing life course; But traditional love making is effect-less and makes life dull ever!