I Am O.K. You Are O.K.

‘I lost my pen’ ‘Don’t worry, I shall get you one’ A child like question And an expected parental reply. I am o.k., you are o.k. ‘I lost my pen’ ‘I know you will do only that’ Parent reply belied the question. I am o.k. You are not o.k. ‘I lost my pen’ ‘You can borrow from me’ A child-like question. An adult like answer. I am o.k. You are o.k. ‘Is the bus late? ‘Which bus comes in time? An adult seeking an adult But received a parent reply. I am o.k. You are not. ‘Is the bus late? ’ ‘Yes, heard only ten minutes’ Both responded as adults. I am o.k. You are o.k. ‘Let us play hide and seek’ ‘Yes, let me hide first’ A child sought from a child And received it. I am o.k. You are o.k. ‘Let us play hide and seek’ ‘No, this is not the time’ The reply is parental And belied the question. I am o.k. You are not. ‘Let us play hide and seek’ ‘Yes. Then we should read’ A child and an adult reaction I am o.k. You are o.k. ‘You should not smoke’ ‘Yes. I shall cut it’ A parental question. An adult reply. I am o.k. You are o.k. ‘You should not smoke’ ‘First, you cut your chewing’ A parental question Seeking a child answer But was belied. I am o.k. You are not. ‘She should be taught a lesson’ ‘ Yes, otherwise she will worsen’ A parent seeking a parent and got. I am o.k. You are o.k. ‘I love you.’ ‘I can’t forget you.’ Both are adult, Expecting and receiving As adults. I and you are o.k. ‘I love you’ ‘Shh.. Others may watch” A child’s reply to a child Both are o.k. ‘I love you’ ‘Bitch! Go to hell; I’ll report’ A parental reply, instead. I am o.k. You are not. ‘I love you.’ ‘I think you misunderstood.’ Both behaved as adults. I am o.k. You are o.k. You be the way you are expected. You are then o.k. to others. When others fail to be the way You expected, you reason for it. Others will be o.k. to you. Then where is the individuality? 27.01.2000, Kottayam