Experiences Remembered, Not Dwelt Upon

Surrendering self to the incessant demands of this life, moving forward in spite of them, knowing that hesitating or dwelling on them will cause negative feelings and moods. Feeling very fortunate to have an intense faith and lively hope, setting aside all of the bad things, dwelling instead on the good in life. Positive memories and thoughts are pleasant, what is the good in thinking of loss, grief, unpleasant things, for they have all been experienced and felt once already. They should all be remembered, yes, but not dwelled upon in life, for if this happens, what kind of life will you have, what example will you give your children and others? One that reflects God and His goodness, being positive, or satan and his evil, a negative attitude towards everything, the choice is ours in the end, which one will you choose?