Dysfunctional Parenting?

parents who give everything to children are not kind but cruel? is this manifestation of fool mentality materialistic gloating? breaks makes rule? substitute parenting replacing loving interaction with possessions no time for own children guilt trip gift cop out syndrome chronic symptoms? ever noticed how spoilt brats can be ungrateful demanding lacking self control are parents of spoilt brat children lazy indifferent or do they lack? basic parenting skills the inability to say a simple No? bloated heads inflated egos do sometimes characterize elite privilege parents incapable of thinking feeling willing distinguishing need ability to discipline their immunity children their responsibility children often seen screaming in public display tantrums yes some children are extremely difficult born with chemical imbalances fancy name behavioural problems hot wire switch into eruptive minds but think about reasons multitude other child demanding ungrateful lacking self control crying could it be your constantly giving in to their every whim is reason they screaming public tantrum cry? let loose your child is free to go wherever it wants run wherever it wants do whatever it wants scream yell whenever it wants to run free without rules because you set your child free with indifference without caring without responsibility then one day you rue recriminations why did your child go wrong cross acceptable? social divide commit wrong freedom is good but no rules is wrong I do not give in first I embrace them and in the quiet of a few still seconds pattern decisions ferment in still mind quick fix parents give in to their child/childrens' every wish swift succumbing to their every demand buying gifts gadgets clothes at their every whim upon demand ask and you shall receive guilt give in parents might work long hours rain down upon their neglected children substitute gifts in guilt floods bullied parents buying latest must have items frightened of not keeping up with the Jones too weak to say no? children spoilt rule rein while parents unwise play the shell out game? buying latest craze toys buying child popularity teaching instant gratification but no future money management skills consequences in credit crunch destitution children incapable of looking after themselves as future husband wife prospect leave these time bombs on shelves? Copyright © Terence George Craddock